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Fights are inevitable in relationships, but the way couples handle conflict defines their bond. Blaming language—“You always forget our anniversaries” or “You never listen”—makes partners defensive and escalates tension. Instead, use “I” statements to express feelings: “I feel hurt when our anniversary slips by because it makes me think I’m not a priority.” This shifts the focus from accusation to vulnerability. It’s also important to pick the right time to argue—never when you’re tired, hungry, or in public. Take a 10-minute break if emotions run high, then come back to talk calmly. Remember, the goal isn’t to “win” but to understand each other. Compromise doesn’t mean losing; it means choosing your relationship over being right. By fighting fair, couples turn conflicts into opportunities to grow closer.​